First you need to know and understand that the way we think, feel, and believe has a immense influence upon all that manifests in and colse to our lives. The power that our thoughts and emotions create sends a message out to the Universe not unlike a prayer, and if our power is positive, healthy, honest, and appreciative of our life on a inexpensive level, then the Universe will work with us to create more positive and happy experiences for us. If you can accept that your thoughts and beliefs have manifested what you see colse to you today, and they are continually designing your future, then you will realise how prominent it is to monitor your thoughts and emotions. This has been called the Law of Attraction, but you know anyway that if you give out love, empathy, positivity and have an "attitude of gratitude", that many more good positive things will come your way.
This is quite a hard conception to take on, but there are many references in the Bible to substantiate the Law. So if you can take accountability for where you are today, you know also that you are no longer a victim of circumstance, and you have the power within you to construct your future! So how do you convert perspective, when everything colse to you seems to be wrong:
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1) You legitimately do have to count your blessings, and if you are reading this, legitimately you are blessed. You can see, you can read, maybe you have a warm comfortable home with a Pc, a loving partner and family... Etc, etc. Not everybody has these blessings, so build your list, dig deep and get down to basics and Feel truly grateful. Feeling is important, the Universe responds to our emotions and beliefs', reasoning alone is not sufficient.
2) You must any way monitor your thoughts. You have a list of blessings, so make a list of negatives, and go through them one by one and convert the ones you can right away, and make a plan to convert some over time, and accept that maybe there are some that you cannot change. End the struggle with life, and trust that things are happening as they are supposed to; you are studying and becoming stronger by your experience. Your positive perspective will soon turn things around!
3) If you have bad feelings towards anyone then sort it as soon as possible, maybe by communicating and forgiving where possible. Your negative emotions towards others are hurting you more than anyone else.
4) Be honest in your dealings with the world. If you are dishonest, this will deprive you of long term peace and happiness. I appreciate that may people appear to be happy with their ill gotten gains, but it is artificial, because true happiness comes from the love that we share with our house and friends, and not from material gain.
5) Hypnosis, meditation, binaural beats, are all exquisite ways of achieving peace and dealing with our negative emotions. Binaural beats and isochronic beats are legitimately the quickest and easiest of the three, because no strict regime or discipline is required. You just relax and let the soothing sounds wash over you. The polite rhythms and sounds tune your mind safely and legitimately to achieve peace and a more positive attitude, which in turn translates into more positive life experiences. Many people are reporting life changing success with isochronic beats which is why I have devoted a site to them.
In conclusion, please realise that anyone your life situation is now, you alone have the power to convert it. Look colse to you; appreciate the true attractiveness and love that is already with there. Trust that the bad stuff has been a studying process and you can be stronger for anyone that you have endured. Your new life starts today, so settle to appreciate, trust, and be happy, think and expect only good things, relax, believe and watch them happen.
Wishing you every peace and happiness.
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